My Special Gift…

If you have read a previous blog, you are aware that I am in hot pursuit of my “twitter crown.” I have committed myself to tweeting about the fabulous happenings at my school! I know that my school is filled with Masterpieces waiting to be discovered! I truly believe that everyone has a special gift! If you are one of my followers, you may remember a tweet about a book given to me by a dear friend.  My friend personally delivered the book on New Year’s Eve.  As she handed me the gift, she shared her delight in receiving the book just in time to start the new year!  The book is filled with positive motivations, one for each day of the year. I have been steadfast in reading the motivations. Throughout the week, I toss the book into my work bag.  On Fridays, the book returns home. I often share anecdotes from the book with members of my team. This blog highlights an insightful tidbit gleaned from a short story found in the book. I simply love the story. I wish my creative brain had written it. Nope, I didn’t. The credit belongs to Cyndie Spiegel; the book is entitled A Year of Positive Thinking.

In the book, there is a story about 2 women who speak to a guard of a gated community. The ladies approach the guard at different times but ask the same question, “What kind of people live in there?”  “There” referring to the gated community. In both instances the guard responded with a question, “What kind of people live out there, where you come from?” The ladies had different responses. The first lady didn’t shed a positive light on her neighbors; she recited a list of negative attributes! The second lady had nothing but great things to say about her neighbors; her list of adjectives included kind and loving. To both ladies the guard simply responded, “You will find that here.”

My rendition of the story is not exactly as written in the book. If you want the exact version, buy or borrow the book. I am sure you understand the just of the story, “You will always get what you expect!”

When I have the mindset that something great is going to happen, it does! When I focus on negativity, it consumes my positive energy! Negative conversations and thoughts are exhausting!  Negativity simply zaps my positive vibe and limits my growth!  When I see my kids at school, I see possibilities of greatness! I see their potential. I see what they can become! I know that they are Masterpieces waiting to be discovered!

Happy Thursday!

This is a quick blog, “a good morning, have a GREAT DAY Blog!” If you take a moment to read it, your day will be brighter; you may share a smile with a perfect stranger. Who knows, you might treat a friend to an unexpected cup of coffee or complete a random act of kindness! You will be bound to make someone’s day FABULOUS! After all, a smile and a laugh are the only medicines that everyone can take. Best of all, you don’t need a doctor’s prescription to get them or insurance to afford them! A smile and a laugh can cure just about any ailment.  I know, I received a triple dose yesterday!

Yesterday, I had 3 conversations, with 3 friends; each conversation was filled with laughter! My 1st conversation was held during my drive from work. Yes, I was totally “hands free!” I am not ruining my happy vibe by getting a ticket for talking on a cell phone while driving. I talked to my friend from the time I left my school’s parking lot until I backed into my garage!  I’m not talking about a 15-minute drive; my commute averages 40 minutes, on a good day! I  laughed all the way home!

Once in the house, while cooking dinner, I returned a call to another friend. We talked and laughed while I cooked and enjoyed a scrumptious meal. By the way, I am not an “out of a box” cook! My hubby and I enjoyed, baked salmon, brown rice with spinach, and a medley of roasted zucchini, squash and carrots!  The plate was gorgeous! Really, it could have been featured on the cover of a cookbook entitled, “Women who Work and Cook!” Yeah, I know, the plate was filled with soft foods; hence my ability to laugh a little longer!

My 3rd call was after dinner. This time, my friend called me. While talking with her, I was laughing so loudly, my hubby escorted me into the study so that he could enjoy his favorite television show. In the study is where I stayed all night!  After talking to friend number 3, I fell asleep on the couch. I woke up in enough time to see the early morning news, prepare my things for work, and to write this blog!

I have 5 minutes before I get dressed for work. Yesterday was a fabulous day and today is going to be AWESOME!

Do something that makes you HAPPY! 

Share a smile!

Laugh a LOT!!

Orange Sprinkles!

The Zorro Circle

It is 5:00 a.m. on a Saturday morning; my hubby is downstairs exercising.  I am upstairs typing a blog. It sounds a little wacky! No, I don’t live in a dysfunctional household. We both fell asleep while the television was watching us; now neither of us can fall asleep. I went to bed with the intent of starting my day at a normal hour but that’s not happening today! Lying in bed has resulted in me mentally creating an elaborate schedule of “must do’s” for the day. My mind is spinning with ideas  and one of my favorite rules prevailed, “If you lie in bed for 30 minutes and can’t fall asleep, get up and DO SOMETHING!” I put a load of clothes in the washer and started a blog! A “Must Do” and a “Me Do!”

I’ve been deliberating over setting some goals for myself. After all, it’s the beginning of a new year! I narrowed my goal setting to the circles that consume my world: home, work, and ME! I know my plan will work well because it’s grounded in research. I am setting my personal goals based on information gleaned from my favorite orange book, The Happiness Advantage! Yes, I am still hooked on “happiness” and orange is one of my favorite colors!

In the book, the author wrote about the  Zorro Circle, named after the swashbuckling movie character “Zorro.”  The author elaborates on Zorro’s transformation from a binge-filled alcoholic to a masterful swordsman. He accredits Zorro’s conversion to his  astute mentor and to Zorro’s ability to successfully navigate within manageable circles.  Zorro’s first task was to become confident and skillful within a narrowly defined circle.   After mastering the smallest circle, Zorro’s mentor widens the circle, thus prompting Zorro to perfect his craft even more.  As the tale continues, Zorro becomes well known for his skills as a swordsman and dedicates himself to helping those in need. While the act of helping those in need resonates to many; the symbolism of the circles may sometimes be overlooked. By initially limiting the size of Zorro’s circle and gradually expanding its size, Zorro’s mentor had ensured that Zorro would accomplish his goal!

When I set my goals for this marvelous new year, I’m keeping the  Zorro Circle in mind. My goals will be challenging but obtainable! I am going to keep my circles large enough so I must stretch and small enough so that I can advance to a larger circle!

As you set goals for the new year, whether they are goals for home, work, or self,  ensure that they are reasonable and obtainable!

Less stress, more happiness!

Orange Sprinkles!

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