Discover A Beautiful New Sunrise Waiting Just for You!

I started this blog about 4 years ago. My commitment to writing has been sporadic because of my overloaded schedule and my pursuit of other things. My message today is very simple; “Just drive; pick your road and keep driving!”

If you are persistent, you will climb a mountain or 2, cross a border, and drive down a winding road to find the perfect sunrise. There are moments in life when you will lose the ones you love, when you will be dealt unfair hands, and when people will walk away; but that’s life. The only thing that you can control is the car that you are driving!

I know that it is easier said than done but always remember that there are people who love you, care about you, and support you. Now pick your road and keep driving! Fill your backseat with ALL the people that are dear to you, venture to new places, and experience new things! There’s a sunrise with your name on it!

Happy holidays!

Superpowers to the Rescue!

I’ve come to realize something that has truly been staring me in the face…”Happiness is an INSIDE Job!” Shawn Achor and Spark the orange frog are still my pals, but honestly…PEOPLE ARE AS HAPPY AS THEY WANT TO BE!  Spark will always have a place in my office.  I am still tossing orange sprinkles, but if you want to be HAPPY, you must work at it!  I’ve accumulated a few superpowers that stop me dead in my tracks if I dare to turn down Negativity Road! I will share my list, maybe you have superpowers too and just haven’t realized it!

  1. I surround myself with people that make me a better person. These individuals cause me to smile and laugh, but more importantly they can redirect my negative thoughts and channel positive waves my way. Example: My “hubby” inquired about my day at work. While it was not the most horrific day that I had experienced, I began by sharing ALL the things that had required some out of the box thinking. As I rattled off my list, he abruptly stopped me, by saying “Whoa, I am a sunny-side up kind of guy.” Not only did I stop ranting, but I even felt a little embarrassed. I was lucky to have that superpower sitting on the couch!
  2. I read books that set my mind at ease. These good reads are for pure enjoyment. I’ve read the Happiness Advantage and The Orange Frog twice! Exciting mind tingling mysteries by Patterson are also favorites on my go-to list.
  3. While watching television may not be my first choice, I have a selection of tv shows that will surely spark a few giggles. On demand to the rescue!
  4. I have inspirational sofa cards that I shuffle through quite often. The cards decorate my coffee table and are intended for guests to read while waiting for the main event.  Spoiler, I purchased those cards for me!
  5. I DO what makes ME HAPPY! I listen to my favorite songs or podcasts. I call my family and friends. I shampoo the carpet. I write a blog. I take a walk. I replant my flowers. I draw a picture. I go shopping. I find ME!
  6. Lastly, I reaffirm myself. I know that I am a loving person. I know that I am a caring person. I know that I am a dedicated person.  I know that I have special talents and unique skills.  I AM PROUD of ME!

Make a list of your superpowers or try a few of mine. #Orange Sprinkles!

Enjoy Your 24!

Today is the eve of a new year.  The past year has been horrific, to say the least. I am sure that you won’t find a single person who can’t share a devastating story.  I think most of us will conclude that we have had our fill of gloom, doom, negative karma, illness, misery, sadness, and worry. We have experienced it, read about it, talked about it, and saw it!  On a brighter note, we are still here, still eating, still singing, and still able to spend time with those that make us laugh, share our dreams, and push us along the journey of life.

Today’s message is clear: WE ARE STILL HERE! Enjoy your 24! Enjoy the things that make you happy! View everyday as an opportunity to experience something new, an opportunity to share your gifts with someone else; your opportunity to brighten someone’s day!  Don’t dwell on what you lost; what you can’t control; what went wrong; or who did you wrong….ENJOY YOUR 24!

Wishing you prosperity, good health, happiness, and success in 2021!  A new adventure awaits!

Orange Sprinkles!

Two Words

I’ve been MIA on the blog scene.   It hasn’t been because I have nothing to write about or because my laptop isn’t working.  It just happens to be a side effect of the times.  Several friends and even my “hubbie” have mentioned, “You haven’t written a blog.”  So, this morning,  while waiting for the sun to say, “Good Morning Sunshine,” I decided to visit my personal place of tranquility.  Visiting my blog space may  just be my personal stimulus for a fabulous day! 

Shortly after entering my password, I received the most awesome message…. “WELCOME BACK!”  Imagine that, someone MISSED ME!  I AM IMPORTANT to someone!  Somebody was thinking, ” I haven’t heard from Sharon in a while.”  “I wonder  how Sharon is doing?”  “Is Sharon coming back?”  “I MISS Sharon!”   Then someone decided,  to send ME a special message that would brighten my day.    Yes, that’s my story and I AM sticking to it!  Someone missed ME!  Someone cares about ME and someone is glad to have ME partake in their adventure!   Even though I’ve been gone for a while, when I returned; I was welcomed with open arms. 

See, I told you …STIMULUS FOR A FABULOUS DAY!

Don’t think I’m crazy.  I know I received a  computer-generated message aimed at making me feel special and of course keeping  me interested in blogging, but the message made a powerful impact!  Imagine what would happen if you shared a special message with someone you haven’t seen or spoken to in a while.   What would happen if you called a long-lost friend or relative, shared a smile with a coworker, or gave a compliment to a stranger?  Don’t forget to share the LOVE with your family.  After all, what’s life without someone to share it with! The journey of life is challenging  and filled with unexpected surprises.  It’s great to get a surprise that makes you SMILE!

Orange Sprinkles!

The Friend Formula

Friends are special individuals who meander into our life and bring orange sprinkles with their presence. They fulfill our personal needs, lend helping hands, share our burdens, and make us laugh! They come equipped with backpacks filled with fairy dust, gold bullion, and confetti! They encourage us to do what we can; and insist that we do what we must! They make us smile, laugh, and move forward! Some friends stay for a season, others for a lifetime! The “friend formula” can be baffling for kids and adults alike! I recall an after-recess conversation with 3 first graders, the kids were visiting my office to discuss a dilemma that had surfaced during playtime. Among the 3 kids, were 2 pairs of friends. The 6-year old minds could not conceive the possibility of 3 friends playing together. The sort-after “best” friend started telling the story. He described a situation where each of the other kids wanted to be his friend. He shared that he had played with 1 friend on the previous day and had decided to play with the other friend on the present day. In his mind, he felt that he had solved the problem! On this day, his plan had not run smoothly; yesterday’s playmate was not happy! I used my creative skills to spend a tale of 3 friends playing together in harmony. I talked about the games they could play together and how each one could teach the other one something new. Everybody has special talents that should be shared! After several nods of affirmation from the kids, I smiled, thinking that I had sealed the deal on a friendship among the triplets. The storyteller added a dramatic conclusion to my tale. In a sincere humble voice, he verbalized his inner thoughts….”If I have to play with both of them at the same time, I will throw-up.” Lost for words, I decided it best to continue the conversation on the following day, after recess. Today, I was reminded of the incident with the kids and decided to take a 1-minute challenge. In 1-minute, I listed adjectives to describe qualities I expect in a friend. My list included the following words: funny, loyal, respectful, trustworthy, honest, dependable, supportive, daring, creative, decisive, compassionate, and determined. I didn’t dare to connect the adjectives to my circle of friends; I understand that they share with me their best attributes; their attributes help me to be my best Me! Whether you have 1 or 10, cherish your friends! Orange Sprinkles!!!

Today is a Great Day!

I know that it has been several weeks, maybe even a month since I last posted. While I am not a person who leans toward excuses, most of us must admit that the last 3 months have not been typical. Our lives have been flipped upside down, and what has been the norm just is not the norm anymore! All of us have been impacted by Covid19 in one fashion or another; now we are faced with the reality of moving forward, adjusting, adapting, and accepting what will become the “new” norm. While many things have shifted, we cannot overlook the special people in our lives and the little things that bring us joy and peace.

I have a friend and colleague who sends me the perfect text for the precise moment. She’s recommended books and videos. She even recommended the ideal song for my mom’s homegoing! She’s always right on target! She is a wonderful kind-hearted person who shares genuine compliments like free-flowing water! It’s like she has a superpower! Recently, she recommended a YouTube video that emphasized showing gratitude by telling others how they have positively influenced your life. In the video, the host recommended writing a letter to those who have made a positive impression on your life.

Today, I am writing a “thank you” blog to my family, friends, and colleagues who have positively influenced my life. Thank you for the support that you have shown me. Thank you for the kind words that you have shared. Thanks for being a pillar when the walls were crumbling. Thanks for making me laugh when tears were near. Thanks for sharing your stories. Thanks for the perfect text message. Thanks for listening to my chatter. Thanks for being my cheerleader. Thanks for helping me grow! Thanks for helping me accomplish things that I could not have accomplished without YOU! Thanks for BEING YOU!

As we move forward, in search of our “NEW” NORM, do not forget to say THANKS!

There’s a Lesson to Be Learned

I’ve been away from my school for an entire week, but I haven’t seen my kids for 2 weeks. It has been twenty thousand one hundred sixty minutes since I last laid eyes on my school kids. It seems a bit strange that 1 week of an unplanned school closing has left me dismal. Yes, I am totally engulfed in the pandemic that is sweeping the nation, but I am also trapped in a web of concern for my kids. I am like a melancholic puppy who can’t find her fuzzy toy. I’ve even resulted to asking Alexa to play the favorite songs of my kindergartners. I am totally fixated on all the things my kids are missing. I am wondering how they are impacted by the closing, if their families are well. I am concerned about the fractured school year and how my kids will return to learning as “usual” when the pandemic has subsided. I am wondering what questions the kids may have. I know that there are many. I received an email from one of my kids, she typed, “I miss you, Dr. Walker-Hood.” The email made my day! My district, like others, has implemented a plan to stay in touch with our kids and to ensure that their minds are being stimulated. My team and I are communicating with families via a web-based program, telephone calls, and emails. It’s ironic, when school was in session, there was always someone longing to be home,  sometimes a kid and sometimes an adult. Now that we are restricted to stay at home, we are longing to be at school. The kids miss their teachers and the teachers miss their kids!

As always, there’s a lesson to be learned in everything that happens. It’s up to the individual to learn the lesson. Yes, this pandemic is unprecedented; it’s sweeping the nation like a wildfire but there is a lesson to be learned! The lesson, in its simplest form is to learn to appreciate people. Appreciate your family, friends, neighbors, those you work with, those you see at stores, and those whose names you don’t know. Stop thinking you are better than others. Stop thinking you know everything. Stop judging people.  Stop complaining.  We ALL are Masterpieces, unique individuals with special gifts and talents! This pandemic doesn’t discriminate. Let us show compassion, empathy, patience, and appreciation…TODAY, TOMORROW, and ALWAYS!

I hope that all is well with my kids and their families.  I hope my team and their families are well, safe, and secure.  Soon, I hope to see them ALL! I know this devastating pandemic is only a moment in time.  I hope we understand and digest its lesson. I miss my Masterpieces!

Pause…Reflect…Just DO It !

Life is filled with circumstances, conditions, and situations that will cause you to rethink your original plan, make a mental adjustment, and reacquaint yourself with your inner being.  I am purposefully avoiding the word “obstacles!” There are also those situations that will simply cause you to jump in and get busy! I refer to those situations as “Just DO It” moments! The “Just DO It” moments are things you must do, regardless of how much you talk about them! They are items on YOUR TO-DO LIST, and you are committed to  checking them off! I have had many in my lifetime.

I think my most devastating “Just DO It” moment, may have been when I was on vacation and had received an email from my dissertation chair.  Imagine being on vacation and receiving  a “CHANGE this, ADD that”, dissertation REVISION email! My reaction to that email almost ruined my vacation! My first reaction was to complain to my husband. Our plans for lunch were delayed by my repeated rants,” I am not changing it! I am not! I am not changing a THING!” Then I reverted to how many pages I had already written and how many graphs I already had created! Lastly, I proclaimed myself finished! I sat on the side of the bed and started new rants, “I give up! This is stupid! I have a life!” My husband in his ever so calm voice, simply said, “really.” He then told me to get dress so we could go to lunch because HE WAS HUNGRY. He refused to be a part of my ranting. He knew, I wasn’t finished. He knew I wasn’t quitting. He knew I was having a moment. He knew, that after reflection, I would just DO It!

I moped around and sulked for a few minutes before  putting on my favorite “Just Do It” t-shirt.  I am sure you have one, it is a  mental must have!  Yes, I made the revision. Yes, I have a pompadour. No, I didn’t quit! Yes, WE had lunch!

In our roles as educators and guardians of the children, we are often faced with “Just DO It” moments. Some require us to stretch ourselves, to give a little more, to do more, and to make personal reflections. After all, we have a SPECIAL CALLING! The kids that come before us are the leaders of tomorrow; what we DO or DON’T DO, will impact their futures. I have always felt that the children entrusted in my care should receive the same care that I would like my child to receive.  I know that being an educator can be arduous. I understand that exceptional educators stretch themselves because they love kids and they love what they do. I realize teaching oftentimes means making sacrifices. I understand that preparing lessons can be time consuming. I know there is ALWAYS something on the To-Do List that never ends! I understand that sometimes, all educators need to reflect and regroup. I also know that EXCEPTIONAL educators will continue to do an AWESOME job, no matter what!

While you are reflecting, don’t overlook the REWARDS of being an educator, they are immeasurable!

Hooves Up to the educators who “Just DO It!” 

Happy Thursday!

This is a quick blog, “a good morning, have a GREAT DAY Blog!” If you take a moment to read it, your day will be brighter; you may share a smile with a perfect stranger. Who knows, you might treat a friend to an unexpected cup of coffee or complete a random act of kindness! You will be bound to make someone’s day FABULOUS! After all, a smile and a laugh are the only medicines that everyone can take. Best of all, you don’t need a doctor’s prescription to get them or insurance to afford them! A smile and a laugh can cure just about any ailment.  I know, I received a triple dose yesterday!

Yesterday, I had 3 conversations, with 3 friends; each conversation was filled with laughter! My 1st conversation was held during my drive from work. Yes, I was totally “hands free!” I am not ruining my happy vibe by getting a ticket for talking on a cell phone while driving. I talked to my friend from the time I left my school’s parking lot until I backed into my garage!  I’m not talking about a 15-minute drive; my commute averages 40 minutes, on a good day! I  laughed all the way home!

Once in the house, while cooking dinner, I returned a call to another friend. We talked and laughed while I cooked and enjoyed a scrumptious meal. By the way, I am not an “out of a box” cook! My hubby and I enjoyed, baked salmon, brown rice with spinach, and a medley of roasted zucchini, squash and carrots!  The plate was gorgeous! Really, it could have been featured on the cover of a cookbook entitled, “Women who Work and Cook!” Yeah, I know, the plate was filled with soft foods; hence my ability to laugh a little longer!

My 3rd call was after dinner. This time, my friend called me. While talking with her, I was laughing so loudly, my hubby escorted me into the study so that he could enjoy his favorite television show. In the study is where I stayed all night!  After talking to friend number 3, I fell asleep on the couch. I woke up in enough time to see the early morning news, prepare my things for work, and to write this blog!

I have 5 minutes before I get dressed for work. Yesterday was a fabulous day and today is going to be AWESOME!

Do something that makes you HAPPY! 

Share a smile!

Laugh a LOT!!

Orange Sprinkles!

The Zorro Circle

It is 5:00 a.m. on a Saturday morning; my hubby is downstairs exercising.  I am upstairs typing a blog. It sounds a little wacky! No, I don’t live in a dysfunctional household. We both fell asleep while the television was watching us; now neither of us can fall asleep. I went to bed with the intent of starting my day at a normal hour but that’s not happening today! Lying in bed has resulted in me mentally creating an elaborate schedule of “must do’s” for the day. My mind is spinning with ideas  and one of my favorite rules prevailed, “If you lie in bed for 30 minutes and can’t fall asleep, get up and DO SOMETHING!” I put a load of clothes in the washer and started a blog! A “Must Do” and a “Me Do!”

I’ve been deliberating over setting some goals for myself. After all, it’s the beginning of a new year! I narrowed my goal setting to the circles that consume my world: home, work, and ME! I know my plan will work well because it’s grounded in research. I am setting my personal goals based on information gleaned from my favorite orange book, The Happiness Advantage! Yes, I am still hooked on “happiness” and orange is one of my favorite colors!

In the book, the author wrote about the  Zorro Circle, named after the swashbuckling movie character “Zorro.”  The author elaborates on Zorro’s transformation from a binge-filled alcoholic to a masterful swordsman. He accredits Zorro’s conversion to his  astute mentor and to Zorro’s ability to successfully navigate within manageable circles.  Zorro’s first task was to become confident and skillful within a narrowly defined circle.   After mastering the smallest circle, Zorro’s mentor widens the circle, thus prompting Zorro to perfect his craft even more.  As the tale continues, Zorro becomes well known for his skills as a swordsman and dedicates himself to helping those in need. While the act of helping those in need resonates to many; the symbolism of the circles may sometimes be overlooked. By initially limiting the size of Zorro’s circle and gradually expanding its size, Zorro’s mentor had ensured that Zorro would accomplish his goal!

When I set my goals for this marvelous new year, I’m keeping the  Zorro Circle in mind. My goals will be challenging but obtainable! I am going to keep my circles large enough so I must stretch and small enough so that I can advance to a larger circle!

As you set goals for the new year, whether they are goals for home, work, or self,  ensure that they are reasonable and obtainable!

Less stress, more happiness!

Orange Sprinkles!

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